Better Sex Tips

Putting it All Together

Now that you’ve learned all the fundamentals, it’s time to put them into practice. Just like your man learned to respond to your desires by reading your body language while he was giving you head, his body will talk to you. Learn to listen to it, watch his facial expressions. The way he thrusts his hips and tilts his pelvis will tell you how far he wants his cock in you and whether he wants you to stroke it or mouth it. The pulsing in his cock will tell you when he’s starting to cum. Let him guide your head and hands with his hands.
It could start off like this. The two of you have been playing around for some time and you’re both ready for you to do some serious cock-sucking. His cock is standing up straight, talking to you, come on, I’m hard, slide your soft wet lips down over my head and suck on me. Ahhh . . . that feels good, swing your head around and around and around . . . suck more of me into you, slide your mouth up and down over me, great! Take my balls in your hand, play with them, back up to my head, play with it, slide it out, lick it with your tongue, nibble on it with your lips, tongue its under-side, lick it like a lollipop, suck it back in, out, in, out, in . . . Take me back in you, let my head feel the back of your throat, take me back out until your lips close in behind my head, back in again, up and down, up and down and down and bury your face in my bush, hold all of me in your mouth and throat, back up to my head, circle your lips over my head, slowly suck me back into you. My crotch is rising up to you, waiting to feel the bottom of your throat again, short strokes bumping your lips against my groin, full strokes, up and down . . . up and down, my strokes meeting yours, shorter now, my head slipping in and out of your throat, back up to my head, taste the juices starting to flow, suck them out, feel me swelling, my hips thrusting me deeper into your mouth. I’m starting to pulse, my body shuddering, up and down on me, faster, not too far in, I’m starting to cum, suck it out of me, faster, harder, that’s it, suck it out, swallow it, quick, take me back to the bottom of your throat, hold me there. I’m done, my last shot deep in your throat, my body relaxing, breathing coming back to normal, back up, clean me off with your lips and tongue, gently now, suck out the last drops, hold me in your mouth as I grow soft. Bring your lips up to mine, your breasts pressed to my chest, let me kiss that sweet mouth that brought me such pleasure.

Balls, Nuts, Family Jewels

Don’t forget his balls, it can be fun for both of you if you play them right. Just as with women and their clits, some men’s balls are extremely sensitive. Just as you must completely trust him before you let him thrust his cock down your throat in throat fucking, there must be a certain amount of trust built up between the two of you before he’ll willingly let you have undisputed use of those two prize possessions! This is a serious concern for a man, it’s his balls that secrete the hormones that give him his masculinity and he doesn’t want any thing to happen to them.
Begin by gently licking his balls with your tongue. You may want to gently caress his cock with your hand while you’re bathing his balls with your tongue. Remember that the balls are sensitive to excessive pressure, however, it can feel good to him if you put your thumb and forefinger around his sack and pull on it, surprisingly hard in fact.
Once you get them wet, try taking one of them into your mouth and playing with it, see if you can get both of them in. Watch his face and feel him quivering as you gently move them around in your mouth while you massage his cock with your hands. Try closing your lips around his sack above his balls and pulling with your mouth like you did with your fingers.

In a Hurry?

There’ll be times when you’ll want to give him a quickie. It’s a very simple technique. Place your lips around the head of his cock and twirl your lips wetly and gently around the coronal ridge at the back of the head of his cock just covering and uncovering the meatus with each twirl. This doesn’t require any great skill, it works simply because this is the most sensitive area on his cock.
It’s not necessary to be all that skillful. All that’s necessary is for you to find the most sensitive area around the coronal area. By sucking on this area of his cock continuously, you’ll produce a quick powerful cum. It’s not necessary to bob your head up and down on his cock to get him off. One other use of this technique is to get him hard again after he’s already cum.

CONGRATULATIONS!

You’re doing just fine and he loves it! Keep it up as long as you’re comfortable with it. Now you’ve given him head that he’ll not forget. I’ve heard from men that not one woman in fifty really knows how to give good head. The rest act like it’s a big favor. If you don’t like to give head at first, don’t give up, most women eventually develop a liking for it as they allow themselves to get into the sensual, intimate nature of it. Older women seem to like it more, I know one woman who sometimes has orgasms while giving head.
One final note, this time for the men, don’t push it! There’s nothing more deadly to a relationship than pushing a woman’s head down to your crotch. If she wants to do it, she’ll get around to it in her own good time. Don’t be afraid to discuss oral sex with your woman, you just might be surprised at her response.
Now, go get ‘em girls!

The Best of Both Worlds: Blending Oral Sex and Coitus

As I said earlier, although I personally find 69 the most emotionally satisfying, I do dearly love a good fuck, the feel of a thrusting cock deep in my cunt. When a couple has become wholly at ease with oral sex and completely familiar with each others needs and responses, they should learn to blend it in with a good fuck. Because of a man’s difficulty in achieving multiple orgasms and the way that cock switch in his brain works, thinking of sex - cock hard (anticipating it - like a rock), cum - cock soft, he should take the lead in the intercourse described here (there’s a sequence where you want him to eat you and still keep his cock soft and I don’t know any way to do that except wear him out first). However, as you become more familiar with each other’s likes and dislikes, either can start if you rearrange the sequences a little, it’s fun to try.
Sometime when you have a few hours to spend, try this. Start out on a nice comfortable bed and warm her up with some serious cuddling and kissing. Work your way around until she’s lying at the edge of the bed with her feet resting on two chairs and you on top of her between her legs. Kiss and caress your way down her body as you slide your body slowly over her pussy until you are resting on the floor with your tongue in her cunt.
Now, give her the best head she’s ever had. When she cums, ease up and carefully work her up toward another orgasm. As she begins to respond, slowly work your way back up her body, letting your body slide over her clit. When you reach her lips, slowly slide your tongue into her mouth and your cock into her cunt until both are all the way in. Now, start a slow fuck using short strokes while making sure your pelvic bone is massaging her clit at the end of each stroke. Sometimes it’s fun to slide your tongues in and out of each others mouth in time with your strokes. Every few strokes, stop with your cock in hard and massage her clit with your pelvic bone while you French kiss.
Try different types of strokes to find out what feels best. Every so often try a few long strokes, some slow and easy, some fast and hard. Try a few where your cock comes almost all the way out with just the tip still in and then slide it in until the shaft just enters, keep the coronal ridge slipping in and out of the entrance to her cunt, that feels good, see if you can bend your cock toward her so that it rubs against her clit at the same time you’re sliding its head in and out of her cunt, that feels great. Whatever you do, remember that it’s manipulation of her clit that brings her to climax, not your cock in her cunt. You can only move away from her clit for a short time before she starts to come down. Just as when you’re eating her, it feels nice to her when you slide your tongue down and thrust it into her cunt or play around in her vestibule, but you have to quickly lap it back up to her clit to maintain the intensity of her emotions.
When she starts to cum, don’t change anything, keep up the pressure on her clit and maintain the rhythm or increase the intensity of your strokes if that’s what she wants but don’t slow down. If you cum first, don’t take your cock out, keep it in deep and work on her clit with your finger until she cums.
The object is to work on as many of her erogenous areas as you can at the same time while keeping up the massage of her clit; your cock sliding around in her cunt, your tongues darting around in each others mouths like playful otters, her nipples and breasts rubbing against you, your hands caressing her head and breasts, until you both cum, which, with practice, will be together and won’t take long.
Now, don’t do anything distracting like washing up and especially don’t let go of her. Hold and caress her, work your way back on the bed and cuddle.
Don’t quit yet, keep up the momentum while she’s still hot. Keep cuddling her while you lose your hard and work your way around to an upside down kiss. Then quickly kiss and caress your way down each others bodies into a side by side 69 position. Let her suck your cock into her mouth before it starts to get hard again, all of it, right up to your bush and keep her lips pressed against your groin. Gently start eating her pussy as she tastes the mixture of love juices your cock brought from her cunt and feels your cock filling her mouth, growing down into her throat, starting to throb. Make her passions rise as you begin to eat out her pussy. Thrust your tongue deep in her cunt, taste the same love juices her taste buds are now savoring. Keep your minds on what you’re doing and make each other cum again.
Go back to cuddling and keep her mind on sex. Maybe, after you’ve rested enough for a third orgasm and she’s still hot, you can talk her into letting you lie back and relax while she gives you head, complete with some serious deep-throating. This may cost you though, you’ll probably have to eat her again, so?
Take your time, relax, let your sexual appetites lead you, enjoy the pleasures of each others body. Take turns giving each other head, eat pussy first, suck cock first, 69, fuck, mix it up, as the mood strikes you.