Better Sex Tips

Art of Fellatio or How to Suck Cock

Introduction
This chapter is for those gals who wonder what sucking a mans cock is all about, think they might like to do it, or already do it but want to learn how to both give and receive more pleasure from it. It will teach them the skills they need so that both they and their partner can receive more pleasure from fellatio.
Studies show that from 50 to 80 percent of women perform fellatio. Of those, 35 to 65 percent find it pleasurable, with the rest saying they can take it or leave it or don’t enjoy it. Other studies show 90 percent of married couples under 25 giving head. If you’re just sucking cock because your man wants you to, read on, your man may find himself waking up in the middle of the night with his cock in your mouth.
Why would a woman like to suck a man’s cock? Why would she even want to put his cock in her mouth? First off, you have to have a man with the right attitude about sex and your needs before you should even think about putting his cock in your mouth or anywhere else in you for that matter, enough said. I’ve sucked a few cocks over the years and talked to many women who have also. Some women submit to sex, some accept it, some willingly participate when aroused, but some really like it and don’t always wait for their man to initiate it. Unfortunately, a lot of those women who only submit to or accept sex simply have a lousy lover. Most women I know who really like sex also like to suck cock. I don’t like to suck cock instead of fucking, I like it as a supplement to fucking. Sucking a man’s cock makes my cunt ache to have one in it. I love to suck him off and then keep working on his cock until I can get him hard enough to fuck me. Those fucks are some of the best I’ve ever had, well, maybe tied with having him eat me first.
But never mind who does and who doesn’t do it, I think that the reasons those who do suck cock do it are similar to the two that make men like to eat pussy, plus a third unique to women. First, they have a loving caring man and the more he likes what they do, the hotter their cunts get. The second is the role that the mouth and tongue play in sex. Why do people kiss? They receive pleasure from the interaction that takes place during a kiss. The mouth, lips and tongue are some of the more erogenous zones of the body and are active rather than passive, you do something with them. You nibble on his ears, kiss and suck on his nipples, kiss his navel, why not kiss and suck on the most sexual part of his body, that thing you love to have thrust into you, his cock. The third is the almost subconscious sexual desire of a woman to draw a man into her body, when she gets hot she wants his cock in her, and her mouth is an inviting place to put it. Put this all together and his cock in your mouth is where it’s at gals.
Just for a minute, forget how good it feels to a man for a woman to take his cock into her soft loving mouth, lick it, suck it, slide her lips down over it until she has her face buried in his bush.
Let your imagination conjure up images of your favorite movie star’s cock in your mouth. It’s live, warm, feel it throb as his hart beats. Feel it pulse as he tightens his muscles. Imagine sucking it inside you and bringing him to climax.
Sucking a man’s cock can be one of the pure pleasures in a woman’s life. It’s sad to think that many women don’t appreciate just how much fun it can be. One reason for this, outside of being with the wrong man, is that they don’t know how to suck cock and so it doesn’t end up being much fun. Because if you mess up, you don’t get your reward. The cock doesn’t get hard, the man doesn’t have a good time and the woman feels like a failure. Other reasons are: a man’s cock is dirty; he urinates through it; he won’t respect me if I do it; he’ll cum in my mouth. The answers are: if he washes his cock, it’s as clean as your finger that you willingly put in your mouth; urine is not poison and doesn’t carry germs, besides he doesn’t urinate when he has a hard-on; he’ll probably love you for it and give you head to boot; he won’t cum in your mouth if you don’t want him to, besides you’ll probably want him to when you get into it.
Many women who do give head seem to think that simply making a cunt of their mouth, closing it around a man’s cock, and bobbing their heads lustily up and down until he climaxes automatically makes them experts. Tant so girls!
But here’s the good news; it’s easy to learn how to be a terrific cock-sucker and once you find out how to do it right, your man will love it and so will you. It’ll take some practice, but that’s work?
What’s Down There
But first things first. Let’s talk about the “basic cock.” LOOK at his cock. I don’t mean a casual glance, study that thing you’re thinking about wrapping your lips around. You’ve had it in your cunt and it felt good there, it just might feel good in your mouth. He’ll be glad to let you look at it, if you want to look at it, you just might want to do something else with it.
Turn on a strong light and get him flat on his back on your bed. Take his cock in your hand and see if you can get it hard. Now, take a close look at it. The main part is called the shaft. There’s a bulbous part near the outer end, slightly larger in diameter than the shaft, which is called the glans penis or head. The ridge where the head joins the shaft is called the corona. This is the most sensitive part of his cock. Follow this ridge around to the underside. There’s a juncture where the two ends come together. This tiny area is easily the most sensitive spot on his entire body. Just like your clit, this is where the action is. You can bring him to climax by gently tapping the tip of your tongue directly on it. The opening in the tip of the head is the meatus. Here’s where that cum that’s been squirting out into your cunt has been coming from.
The shaft doesn’t have many nerve endings over a particular area or any special nerves. As a result, it doesn’t provide a man with any high degree of stimulation when caressed, either with your hand or your tongue. The shaft will, however, respond to pressure. There is also power in numbers, so when all of its nerves are fully enclosed in a warm, wet mouth that’s sucking and slipping and sliding around on it, the feeling is great. The deeper the better girls.
Underneath the shaft, where it joins his body, is the scrotum, and inside are the testicles (family jewels, balls, nuts). This is where his sperm is created. You’re born with all of your eggs, but he continuously manufactures sperm to fertilize those eggs. They’re also sensitive to temperature, they don’t like to get too hot or too cold. When his balls get too cold, the scrotum shrinks and pulls his balls up against his body to keep them warm. When they get too warm, the scrotum extends to let them cool. His balls are also pulled up against his body inside his scrotum when he’s getting ready to cum. His balls are sensitive to excessive pressure and are all too often ignored as an erogenous area. Big mistake! Men actually like for a woman they trust to play with their balls, if they know how to do it.
Study his cock, play with it with your hand, ask him what feels best. Run your tongue over it, feel the texture, watch his reactions as you lick the various areas. Take some of it in your mouth and hold it there for a while. Watch his reaction and think about how it feels in your mouth physically and what it feels like to have your man’s cock in your mouth emotionally.
There are other parts of a man’s body which respond well to oral stimulation. Spend some time finding them.

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