Better Sex Tips

THE TECHNIQUS OF KISSING

Now is your chance I The moment you feel the tip of your nose touch her scalp, purse
your lips and kiss her, the while you inhale a deep breath of air that is redolent with the
exquisite odor of her hair. it is then but a few inches to her ear. Touch the rim of her ear
with your lips in a sort of brushing motion. Breathe gently into the delicate shell. Some
women react passionately to this subtle act. Brush past her here in this way again and
note her reaction. If she draws her head away, return to her hair and sniff luxuriously of
it. Then: settle back to her ear, the while you murmur “sweet, airy nothings” into it. From
the ear to her neck is but another few inches.. Let your lips traverse this distance quickly
and then dart into the nape and, with your lips well pursed, nip the skin there, using the
same gentleness as would a cat lifting her precious kittens.
Then, with a series of little nips, bring your lips around from the nape of her neck to the
curving, swerve of her jaw, close to the ear. Gently kiss the lobe of her ear. But be sure,
to return to the tender softness of her jaw. From then on, the way should be clear to you.
Nuzzle your lips along the soft, downy expanse until you reach the comer of her lips. You
will know when this happens because, suddenly, you will feel a strange stiffening of ‘her

shoulders under your arm. The reason for this is that the lips constitute one of the main
erogenous zones of the body. The nerve ends in it are so sensitive that the slightest
contact with them sends a pleasurable thrill immediately through the nervous system,
through the medulla portion of the brain, back through the nervous system again, through
branches which connect up with motor nerves, in this case the nerves that control the
sphyncter muscles of the mouth and lips, and the sexual glands which were mentioned
before.
In plain English, the kissee knows she is to be kissed.
Alright. You have subtly kissed the corner of her mouth. Don’t hesitate. Push on further
to more pleasurable spots. Ahead of you lies that which had been promised in your
dreams, the tender, luscious lips of the girl you love. But don’t sit idly by and watch them
quivering.
Act!
Lift your lips away slightly, center them so that when you make contact there will be a
perfect union. Notice, only momentarily, the picture of her teeth in her lips. And, then,
like a sea-gull ‘ swooping gracefully down through the air, bring your lips down firmly
onto the lips of the girl who is quivering in; your arms.
Kiss her!
Kiss her as though, at that moment, nothing else exists in the world. Kiss her as though
your entire life is wrapped up into the period of the kiss. Kiss her as though there is
nothing else that you would rather be doing. Kiss her!
At this point, it is necessary for us to discuss a few subjects which are germane to the art
of kissing, particularly in so fir as they apply to what has just been described. For
instance, there has been raised quite a full in regard to whether one should close one’s
eyes while kissing or while being kissed. Personally, I disagree with those who advise
closed eyes. To me, there is an additional thrill in seeing, before my eyes, the drama of
bliss and pleasure as it is played on the face of my beloved. I can see tiny wrinkles form
at the comers of her eyes, wrinkles of joy. I can see fleeting spasms of happiness flit
across her eyes. I can see these things and, in seeing them, my pleasurable reactions to
the kiss are considerably heightened. In keeping my eyes open, I am giving pleasure not
to one sense alone, the sense of touch, but to two senses, the senses of touch and of sight.
These two, coupled with the sense of smell which is actuated by the perfume of her
breath, all combine to make the kiss an exquisite, ineffable epitome of unalloyed bliss.

HOW TO KISS GIRLS WITH DIFFERENT SIZES OF
MOUTHS

Another question which must be settled at this time concerns the size of the kissee’s
mouth. A consideration of this factor is important. Where the girl’s mouth is of the tiny,
rosebud type, then one need not worry about what to do. Merely follow the directions as
they were outlined above. However, there are many girls whose lips are broad and
generous’, whose lips are on the order of Joan Crawford’s, for instance.. The technique in
kissing such lips is different.
Different Sizes of Mouths Require a Different Technique in Kissing
For, were one to allow his lips to remain centered, there would be wide expanses of lips,
untouched and, therefore, wasted. In such cases,. instead of remaining adhered to the
center of the lips, the young man should lift up his lips a trifle and begin to travel around
the girl’s lips, stopping a number of times to drop a firm kiss in passing. When you have
made a complete round of the lips, return immediately to the center bud and feast there.
Feast there as did that lover of Fatimas, in Tennysen’s poem, in which it was written that:
“Once he drew, with one long kiss, my whole soul through my lips-as sunlight drinketh
dew.”
Then, sip of the honey.
Like the bee that settles on the fragrant pistils of a flower, and sips in the nectar for
honey, so should you sip in the nectar from between the lips of your love. And it is
nectar. For there is in this mingling a symbol of the holy communion o f the spirits of two
soul-mates, joined together in the bonds of an indissoluble love. It was a kiss such as this
which caused the writer of an old German novel to write:
“Sophia returned my kiss and the earth went from under my feet; my soul
was no longer in my body; I touched the stars; I knew the happiness of
angels!”

ENJOY THE THRILLS OF KISSING

But don’t be in a hurry I As in all matters pertaining to love, don’t hurry the process of
kissing. A kiss is too rapturous a thing to be enjoyed for the moment and the moment
only. Linger longer on her lips than you have ever lingered before. Forget time. Forget
everything but the kiss in which you are in the midst of. Don’t be like that bashful young
lover who, after a sweet, long kiss, drew his lips away from the lips of his charmer.
Immediately, She burst out into tears.
“What’s the matter?” he asked solicitously.
“You don’t love me I” she said between sobs.
“But I do!”

“Then why did you draw your lips away?”
“I couldn’t breathe,” he said naively.
Breathe? Who wants to breathe, who even wants to think of breathing in the middle of an
impassioned kiss? Breathe through your nose if you have to breathe. But kiss, keep on
kissing, as long as there! Is one minim of breath in you. Kiss, as Byron said we should
kiss, with the “long, long kiss of youth and love.”
Recently, in Chicago, there was held a marathon kissing contest to determine Which
couple could hold their kiss the longest without being forced to separate. One pair was
able to hold their kiss for fifteen hours. Think of that! Fifteen hours. And yet the naive
lad stopped kissing because be couldn’t breathe.
Elizabeth Barrett Browning must have spent many an ecstatic night of kissing with the
poet, Robert Browning, if we are to judge from an excerpt from her “Aurora Leigh,” in
which she described a kiss as being “As long and silent as the ecstatic night.”
Another poet, unknown, but certainly one who knew whereof he speaks, wrote the
following poem which deserves to be quoted in its entirety.
Oh, that a joy so soon should waste,
Or so sweet a bliss as a kiss
Might not forever last!
So sugared, so melting, -so delicious.
The dew that lies on roses,
When the morn herself discloses,
Is not so precious.
Oh, rather than I would it smother
Were I to taste such another.
It. should be my wishing
That I might die kissing.
At this point, it should be explained that the lips are not the only part of the mouth which
should be joined in kissing. Every lover is a glutton. He wants everything that is part of
his sweetheart, everything. He doesn’t want to miss a single iota of her “million-pleasured
joys” as Keats once wrote of them. That is why, when kissing, there should be as many
contacts, bodily contacts, as is possible.
Snuggle up closely together. Feel the warm touch of each other’s bodies. Be so close that
the rise and fall of each other’s bosoms is felt by one another.
Get next to each other.
“Snuggle Up Closely Together”

And, this same thing applies to the mouth in kissing. Don’t be afraid to kiss with more
than your lips. After your lips have been glued together for some time, open them
slightly. Then put the tip of your tongue out so that you can feel the smooth surface of
your kissee’s teeth. This will be a signal for her to respond in kind. If she is wholly in
accord with you, if she is, truly, your real love-mate, then you will notice that she, too,
has opened her lips slightly and that., soon, her teeth will be parted. Then, if she is all that
she should be, she should project the tip of her tongue so that it meets with the tip of
yours.
Heaven will be in that union!
Lava will run through your veins instead of blood. Your breath will come in short gasps.
There will rise up in you an Overpowering, overwhelming surge of emotion such as you
have never before experienced. If you are a man, you will clutch the shoulders of your
loved one and sense a shudder course through you that makes you pant. If you are a
woman, and being kissed, you will feel a strange languor passing through your limbs,
you-r entire body. A shudder will go through you. You will moan in the delicious
transports of love. And, in all probabilities, you will go faint because the blood in your
veins will be rushing furiously into your entire system and away from your head. Thus,
you will be unable to think any longer. You will only be able to feel, td feel the most
exquisite of pleasures that it has been your lot to feel.